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Bright and early, my old friend, the beauty and wellness <br>
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entrepreneur Liz Earle, is standing at my <br>
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door clutching a Kilner jar with what looks like a small sponge floating in murky water.<br>
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'I made kombucha for you,' she says with an enthusiasm <br>
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I don't entirely share.<br>
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(The sponge, it turns out, is the Scoby, or 'symbiotic culture of bacteria and yeast', which is what's used to <br>
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ferment sweetened tea to make kombucha. I don't realise at the time, but this hideous thing <br>
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takes weeks to develop and is in fact a very generous <br>
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gift.)<br>
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The truth is, I'd drink (almost) anything if it gave me Liz's zip.<br>
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At 61, a mother of five and a new grandmother, she honestly looks 20 years younger.<br>
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Fans of her YouTube channel and her 170,000 Instagram <br>
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followers will know how bright and smooth her skin is, but in person she is fizzing with energy, <br>
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Liz and I have been friends for 25 years - over which time she has somehow <br>
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seemed to gain in vitality as I, nine years her junior, have...<br>
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well, deflated.<br>
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Beauty and wellness entrepreneur Liz Earle, right, and Beatrice Aidin met back in the 1990s when they were both beauty journalists<br>
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So here's my plan. I am going to Live Like Liz for a full eight weeks, morning to night, to see <br>
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just how much I, too, can turn back the clock.<br>
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I am going to eat, drink and exercise like Liz, <br>
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'ground myself' in a flower bed in my pyjamas like her, and even tape up my mouth à la Liz.<br>
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From my gut to my hormones, my brain to the very cells of my skin, I <br>
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will follow the 'bio-hacks' set out in her new book A Better Second Half: Dial Back Your Age To Live <br>
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A Longer, Healthier, Happier Life, which swiftly became <br>
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a bestseller on its release this year.<br>
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Liz says it can't fail, so long as I commit to it.<br>
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'Who's to say we can't or shouldn't change the way we age?' she asks.<br>
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'I was stronger, fitter and more capable in my 50s than I was in my 40s, so why can't I be <br>
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even more so in my 60s, 70s and beyond?'<br>
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Perhaps more significantly, after the 'car crash of emotional wreckage' caused by <br>
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the breakdown of her second marriage, and the divorce she went through <br>
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in 2020, she now says: 'I'm happier at 61 than I was at 40.'<br>
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Career-wise, it shows. When we met back in the 1990s we were both beauty <br>
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journalists. At launches for new products,<br>
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I'd merrily down the free Krug while Liz sipped sparkling water.<br>
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'Ah Bea, you were the yin to my yang,' she says.<br>
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Now, her wellness empire has mushroomed... and I'm suffering major work anxiety, a not-unrelated financial crisis and severe sciatica.<br>
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Frankly, I look and feel knackered. My skin is dull and I have dark circles under my eyes.<br>
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Physical pain interferes with my sleep, and I've been turning rather too readily to the sauvignon blanc to help me nod off.<br>
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Food is not a priority: I'm either not interested or craving sugar, which <br>
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means I'm a good 10lb heavier than I should be.<br>
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So, can living like my rather fabulous friend make me feel as young <br>
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as she looks? More to the point - can I really stick to it, kombucha and all?<br>
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'Come on Bea, get off your backside!' Liz demands...<br>
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Liz (left) puts Beatrice through her paces in the gym. Beatrice needs extra help with exercise because of her sciatica<br>
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Week one: I face up to my middle-age spread<br>
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Liz's top-line diet philosophy is high-protein, low carb, meaning <br>
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she's a fan of lots of foods I love but didn't think I <br>
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should eat: butter, unprocessed meat, avocados, good quality cheese, taramasalata and thick Greek yoghurt.<br>
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High protein helps us 'shift to a leaner, more toned shape, and <br>
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lose that middle-aged spread,' she says.<br>
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Timing matters. Liz eats two meals a day - brunch around 11am and dinner at 7pm.<br>
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The order matters too: clear your plate of chicken before rice, <br>
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because eating protein before carbs keeps blood sugar levels stable.<br>
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In recent years she has increased her coffee intake (before 2pm) because studies show four <br>
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to five cups is 'strongly associated with living <br>
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longer' thanks to the bioactives in coffee beans such as chlorogenic acid.<br>
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She eats wheatgerm, soya beans and nuts to up her intake of spermidine - a dietary molecule that interacts with our DNA and mimics an anti-ageing process called autophagy, which <br>
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Alcohol is basically a no-no. Liz has the 'occasional <br>
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glass' of wine or tequila, but never more than two and never alone.<br>
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I chuck out the ready meals and plonk, roll up my sleeves and start cooking from scratch.<br>
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I grill venison, roast a chicken and make soups with the leftovers.<br>
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Eating at specific times works for me - I'm never <br>
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very hungry first thing - and enjoying the protein part of each meal first means I'm fuller and find it easy to cut back on my carb portions.<br>
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Gut health is a big focus, which means more fermented foods.<br>
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Much to my surprise, I love the kombucha and <br>
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soon start to brew my own using Liz's Scoby. But homemade kimchi - fermented veg - is a harder sell.<br>
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When a lunch guest asks me why I'm forcing myself to eat something I dislike so much,<br>
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I reply solemnly: 'Liz told me to.'<br>
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Week two: I discover I can do only 3 press-ups<br>
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I really need help with exercise because sciatica means my normal routine has gone to pot.<br>
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Thankfully, Liz reckons just ten minutes a day of exercises such as squats, lunges and press-ups is more valuable in the <br>
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long term than a high-intensity gym session once a week <br>
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or a long park run.<br>
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She introduces me to her personal trainer, Michael Garry, <br>
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who delivers the (bombshell, but welcome) news that running any distance over 5k can 'start <br>
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to have negative effects' on our immune system and bone strength.<br>
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If you're a runner, make it harder by speeding up your time,<br>
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not increasing your distance.<br>
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At Michael's insistence, I consult a physio about my sciatica, <br>
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and then he devises a daily regime for me.<br>
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I try press-ups and make it to three. Mortifying. Perseverance <br>
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is clearly key. As are weights, especially in your 50s.<br>
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'The more muscle you have, the more your bones are protected from osteoporosis, especially during midlife,' says Michael.<br>
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For cardio, says Beatrice, I keep swimming twice a week.<br>
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But instead of plodding up and down the pool, I start to compete with myself, speeding <br>
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up the laps<br>
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For my slack and flabby upper arms, he advises shoulder presses and hammer curls, with 3kg weights in both hands.<br>
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I try tricep dips off a chair, and quickly find I can increase my reps - until by week <br>
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four I'm doing two sets of 15.<br>
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I work out three times a week at home. At first the routine takes <br>
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40 minutes but the more I do, the faster I do it, until the whole thing - stretching, press-ups, weights - takes just 20 minutes.<br>
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For cardio, I keep swimming twice a week. But instead of plodding <br>
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up and down the pool, I start to compete with myself, speeding up the laps.<br>
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Week three: I slow the hormonal roller coaster<br>
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I'm menopausal and already on HRT, but I know I could improve how I feel, which is sluggish and foggy.<br>
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Liz introduces me to something called the 'estrobolome' - the <br>
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specific collection of bacteria in the gut that influences how our <br>
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body uses oestrogen. Put simply, some microbes <br>
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improve the efficiency with which oestrogen reaches tissues <br>
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around the body, meaning we use our dwindling <br>
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supplies more effectively.<br>
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The best way to support your estrobolome is by eating fibre from <br>
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veg, seeds and nuts, plus some of the low-sugar fruits <br>
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such as apples, berries and plums. Back to the supermarket I go.<br>
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To boost the happy hormone serotonin, my saintly mentor insists I finish <br>
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my morning shower with a minimum 60-second blast of icy cold water, resulting <br>
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- she claims - in a 'post-shock high' and 'genuine glow'.<br>
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Hmmm. I find it hard to relinquish the comfort of a hot shower and feel not happy but mutinous as I step out of the <br>
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bathroom shivering.<br>
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Week four: I stand in the flower bed<br>
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Living Like Liz means getting outside first thing <br>
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in the morning and standing barefoot on the grass. 'Grounding' apparently <br>
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enables electrons from the surface of the Earth to transmit deep into <br>
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the body, 'where they have an anti-inflammatory effect'.<br>
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Liz tells me she does this in the tranquil grounds <br>
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of her glorious pile in the West Country. I do it in a <br>
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flower bed in my shared patio, still in my pyjamas, and feel,<br>
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well, very self-conscious. Later I graduate to the park, and - look away now - <br>
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tread in dog mess, which does not improve my emotional wellbeing.<br>
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She also encourages us to keep a Five Minute Gratitude Journal twice a day.<br>
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'Gratitude is... a superpower that improves longevity and supports <br>
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the immune system,' she says.<br>
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I can't help but think my better-off mate has <br>
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rather a lot more to smile about than me but, <br>
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following instructions, I write down three things I am grateful for <br>
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every morning, and every night a short list of 'good things' that happened <br>
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that day, plus another (longer) list of 'things that are <br>
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concerning me'.<br>
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My scepticism around gratitude slowly lifts as I find it does make <br>
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me realise what's important and what's not. It helps me see that things are a lot brighter than I thought.<br>
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Packing in a rush for a weekend away, I can't find my journal and am surprised by how <br>
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Week five: I start to sleep well<br>
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I'm a night owl - I stay up too late watching TV and <br>
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end up hitting my snooze button past 8.30am... and occasionally edging towards 10am.<br>
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Liz reckons anyone can improve their sleep if they follow her routine, which means <br>
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setting an evening alarm for 9pm - to remind yourself to start 'winding down for bed'.<br>
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Emails, social media and TV are switched off, replaced by a <br>
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printed book or a podcast. She takes 120g of magnesium glycinate in a milky drink half an hour <br>
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Living Like Liz means getting outside first thing in the morning <br>
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Liz wears a bamboo fibre nightie or pyjamas to keep warm because she sleeps with an open window, which she covers with blackout blinds and curtains, <br>
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and sprinkles her pillow with a few drops of neat lavender essential oil.<br>
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I'm an e-book reader, so already failing at this routine.<br>
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Still, I leave my phone charging in the kitchen and buy a <br>
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regular alarm clock. The lavender oil makes me <br>
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sneeze, so I spray my pillows with C. Atherley Geranium Spray instead. <br>
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Oh, and I tape my lips up - Liz shows me how when she delivers the kombucha.<br>
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All of this is time-consuming and takes practise, but I find the ritual soothing.<br>
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Five weeks in, I'm getting to sleep earlier than I have for <br>
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years - at 10.30pm after 20 minutes drop-off time -and waking at 7.30am.<br>
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How virtuous!<br>
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Week six: I crash off the wagon<br>
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I'm doing my best, but then I go for lunch with a friend who chirpily suggests <br>
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a glass of wine, which turns into a bottle. And <br>
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then a second. Later, with a daytime hangover, I head to M&S and find <br>
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reduced dauphinoise potatoes, which become dinner. <br>
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Liz has got me on a blood sugar tracker called Lingo (£289 <br>
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for two months - you jab a biosensor the size and shape of a plastic bottle top into <br>
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your upper arm, and then link it to an app on your phone), which shows a massive post-potato spike and then a huge slump, which <br>
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makes me tired and irritable. Who knew that such deliciousness had such <br>
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I call Liz to 'fess up. 'I have the odd day when I lie in, eat too much <br>
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cake and drink too much tequila,' she says. 'But that's fine because you <br>
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then know what to do to put it right. It's not about being perfect.' Phew!<br>
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Week seven: I tackle my financial mess<br>
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Re-reading my journal really helps here. <br>
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By documenting what I was so worried about day by day, my <br>
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Here, in black and white, is a record of how I felt at the start of <br>
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I've come unstuck - in a good way. I'm not going to pretend it's been easy because change is <br>
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uncomfortable, but I realise there's simply nothing to be gained from the worry spiral.<br>
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If freelance life is tough, and my income erratic, I'm going to do something about it.<br>
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Buoyed with the confidence that comes with action, I apply for part-time admin jobs.<br>
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As personal trainer Michael observes as we work out on Zoom, I wouldn't have done this before.<br>
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He's right. Finally I've started to take control.<br>
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Week eight: And the winner is...<br>
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So how have eight weeks of Living Like Liz changed me?<br>
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Physically, I'm in much better shape. I've lost 7 lb and taken an extraordinary 5 in off my waist and 11 in off my body as <br>
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Those three pathetic press-ups have become <br>
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a whopping 40 per workout, and the measly 3kg weights are now 6kg, meaning I have proper bicep definition. The sleeveless <br>
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tops will be coming out again this party season.<br>
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My skin is clearer, eyes brighter and face more defined because I've reduced the carb-inducing bloat.<br>
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I'm sleeping better and feeling infinitely less <br>
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anxious.<br>
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Most remarkably - and this is really life-changing - <br>
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my sciatica is almost gone and I can come off strong painkillers.<br>
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I know sciatica can disappear of its own accord, but the timing <br>
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is surely no coincidence. All those exercises have strengthened the muscles <br>
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around my spine and buttocks and I'm convinced <br>
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it's done the trick.<br>
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I meet Liz for lunch, nervous about whether she'll <br>
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see a difference. 'Oh wow,' she says, taking a good look at her pupil.<br>
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'Those arms! You definitely look younger.'<br>
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We chat for a while and she adds: 'You also seem more <br>
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content and optimistic. You have an inner glow and a halo <br>
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Well, yes, she would say that, wouldn't she? (Probably.<br>
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Though Liz is known for her candour, so it's not a given.) 'I wasn't sure you were going to prioritise yourself enough and commit,<br>
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' she admits 'You weren't an easy nut to crack so I'm thrilled.'<br>
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I'm delighted with my gold star. And I'm grateful to her, which is one of the key lessons I've learned.<br>
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Gratitude makes everything feel better.<br>
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That - along with the kombucha, ice-cold showers (which I have <br>
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learned to love) and the odd tequila - are the habits I'll <br>
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hold on to. But not (shudder!) the kimchi or flower beds.<br>
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As Liz says, everyone deserves to have a better second half - and if I can do it, <br>
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anyone can.<br>
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A Better Second Half: Dial Back Your Age To Live <br>
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A Longer, Healthier, Happier Life, by Liz <br>
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